MARRIED WHILE BROKEN

Before we Even can truly say we love someone , we must fall in love with the one who created us. God created us to have a deep need to be loved and truth is no human being can ever truly fufill that Only Our Creator Can and his name is Jesus. In my Book i shared  How my  state of brokenness caused to bleed on someone who was trying to love me , but before marriage I never truly took the time to heal or even build my relationship with God. Truth is if we have been in the world and we did not take the time to heal from past childhood traumas, abuse, failed relationships, then your brokenness can ruin your relationship weather it’s your mom ,dad, siblings,  friend etc. but in this Case marriage. Brokenness can be from you or in your spouse. You attract what you are and the enemy loves to take two broken people and place them together and operate in chaos. That is not God, but  most importantly if you don’t have Jesus in your life then  won’t truly know who you are and actually know what Love truly is.  Allow Jesus to heal before you entered into a covenant.